Having just come from a completely passionless, romance-less, intimate-less relationship, I admit that I am hungry for lovin'. My ex husband was a slug in the bed and out. We didn't even sleep in the same bed ever for the last 4+ years of our marriage. His idea of sexual satisfaction was LITERALLY 3 minutes from start to end (for him always successfully of course). I don't think in my daydreams I could make up a worse lover. The man didn't believe in wasting his erection with foreplay and frankly he was too lazy to do it anyway. I was forced to be satisfied with his 3 minutes once every 2-3 weeks. If I was "lucky", he would use a vibrator afterwards to at least let me get "something" out of the whole 3 minutes of "romance".
Entering into a loving, warm, intimate relationship with my boyfriend has really thrown me for a loop. He's so passionate and caring. He absolutely refuses to do a "quickie" ever and he spends copious amounts of time with foreplay. I am without any doubt more sexually fulfilled than I have ever been in my life, which only seems fair after living with the 3 minute slug and the loneliness of that life. Anyway, I am wondering a lot lately if there is something wrong with my appetite. When B moved in, I was thinking that 3 times a week would be like heaven. I was thrilled to find that he wanted it more like once a day (at least!). I kept making jokes, telling him that he would tire of that pace and that he would be happy with 3 times a week after a few weeks. Well, after a few weeks, we have gone to about 10-12 times a week! I know part of it is that he is trying his best to please me. He knows how long I have lived without love and romance in my life, and he's succeeding in making up for years of that. That being said, we honestly seem to have that "honeymoon mentality" in a big way though! I find myself thinking about him and wanting him all the time! I feel like an 18 year old kid again - full of hormones or something! I can't imagine that this pace will continue for much longer, but maybe....?
Has anyone got any idea of when I might settle down and be able to concentrate on life again or am I just a closet nympho.....? Hhhhmmmmm..... scary thought....
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I can't even imagine several times a week, and to me that is scary because I remember when I was young and my mom said, "You know, a day will come when you don't want to have sex every day." and I remember thinking, NO WAY, clearly this woman doesn't know her daughter. Alas, that day has come, but I think it's a case of being too tired most of the time, and now it's like use it or lose it, and I think I may have lost it. lol
Nawww... I've seen the amazing love that you guys share. Neither one of you has lost a damn thing!! You two are my ideal!!!
Don't they say the more you have, the more you want? In this regard, I see NO harm in that want! Helps keep you young, alive...and it's healthy taboot!
Yea... we're both losing weight, so it's gotta be good! LOL
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