Lo and behold, B and I found out yesterday through a nasty call from his ex-wife (NOT a stable or kind person) that our lovely sister-in-law from hell called her and let her know all about our wedding, gave her my full name and address! B hadn't told the ex about our plans to get married because he was honestly fearful that she might try to sabotage it somehow or even show up! She didn't know about me, or have my name or our address even and this holier than thou biotch called her and told her everything! Had "biotch" and "unstable" been friends when she and B were married, it might've made *slightly* more sense for her to call and rant and rave about me and the type of wedding, but these women don't like each other at all! The SIL did this just to betray B and me. B had thought that she liked him, but obviously not. :( I am STEAMING hot now. B's bro actually talked to her on the phone as well (and he despises her) telling her of his concerns for his poor naive bro saying that the "misguided is leading the naive"......
It's bad enough to be a narrow-minded, judgmental ass, but to then slander and gossip about someone to their ex-wife who is known to be mentally unstable is just flat out betrayal and evil as far as I am concerned. THESE ARE CHRISTIANS????? Why is it that the Christians yelling the loudest about how holy and righteous they are, are the worst examples of what Jesus taught? PATHETIC.
I am seriously considering a slander lawsuit now against the SIL. This woman needs to be taught a lesson. I know I couldn't win or get money from it, I just want her to stop her actions and THINK about the ramifications of them! Ideas??
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Ugh! I had a feeling someone from your wedding had called her. What a headache and heartache. If you want to talk more, I can tell you how I reconciled my own Christian beliefs with participating in your wedding, maybe that will give you some ideas or at least some insight.
Ahhh yes... I figured you had some way of dealing with the ceremony. You are so level-headed and calming and I selfishly forgot completely that it might make you uncomfortable!!!! GEEZ. These people are so narrow-minded that there's literally no hope for them. I am accepting that they don't like me, don't accept me or my beliefs and call me "misguided". It's all good. I just really wish the holier than thou goodie two shoes would mind her own business.
Anyway - not everyone is a REAL Christian like you!!!!
If they weren't causing you so much heartache, they would be laughable. I'm always baffled that people with that mindset can't/won't see the hipocracy in their actions.
The only suggestions I have involve flaming bags of dog poo and many cartons of raw eggs. :)
Seriously. I had someone like that in my family, and I ended up just being cut out of their lives for a few years. :( I know that since there are children involved, that's not an option for you.
She's not making custody an issue, is she?
XOXOXO
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